[ . . . ah - he lifts his head at that and offers a soft smile, a little rueful a little amused]

No, it's nothing - you're right to be honest. In fact, I appreciate it more. I've been told that my head can be in the clouds now and again. Thank you for bringing me back to earth.

But if I may offer a counter - I've seen a few kidnapping end well, where the lost are recovered and the wrong-doers are punished.

Shall we see which of our experiences win out?